Celebrating Modern Medicine

6 years ago, almost to the day, my family and I were able to bring our son, Luca, home from the NICU after a 12 day stay following his premature birth.  It was a very triumphant, heartfelt moment, and I am forever grateful that his stay resulted in good health, with no lasting complications.  He is a healthy 6 year old boy now, and I sometimes forget how tiny he was back then.  I remember how happy and relived I was to finally take him home, safe and sound, after his hospital stay.

Mr. Luca at his 1 year old birthday. Proud big sister not far away, always eager to help and guide him.

He was born about 4 weeks early, at 35 weeks+6 days.  Due to him being so young, he was having problems maintaining his temperature.  Hence, he spent many days spent in the NICU under the experienced, watchful eyes of the nurses and physicians.  Being postpartum, I was full of emotions and was fatigued and overwhelmed, but I had an underpinning, massive desire to take my new little guy home.  I was indescribably happy when the NICU team gave us the good news that March 10, 2016 would be Mr. Luca’s discharge date, and we could take him home with us to help complete our family.

Thinking back, I contemplated how different the results would have been for both me and my child decades ago.  I am astounded and amazed each day by modern medicine and all of the knowledge and technology we have acquired.  It enabled my son’s care to go so smoothly and enabled such good outcomes. I realize our issues were very small in retrospect as well, compared to other family’s trials.  I can only imagine with what other families go through with children born even earlier or with more challenging health concerns.  My outcomes also would like have been very different if the physicians and nurses did not have their experience and modern technology to monitor me closely, with my vitals, how my labor was progressing, and how my child was doing during the labor process.

Seeing also how doctors care for me and my family as we see them, I marvel at how different things were 50-100 years ago.  I often credit our good health and good outcomes on all of this collective knowledge our healthcare teams have obtained.

Working in telemedicine, a relatively new player in medicine, I see that medicine still has a lot of evolution to go.  I know that telemedicine has limitations, but it also opens many doors in caring for patients.  I can see them right where they live and work.  I can see patients with limited access to care, and all it takes is each of us having a good device (computer, cell phone, or tablet) and a good internet connection.  I never shy from telling patients when telemedicine is not the right avenue to go down.  But I am surprised each day by how much I can accomplish, and how grateful patients and their families are for the care we provide with this service.

Going forward, I will keep observing how modern medicine can help me, my family members and friends, and my patients.   I know that things will always evolve and change, as things must.  I hope that things continue to evolve and improve.  I hope good and better outcomes become common place.  I hope that everyone can enjoy better health because of all of these continued changes and advances.

The Gift of Independence

Happy 4th of July to you all!

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I think Independence Day naturally makes me think of the gifts I have. Sometimes, we can take the gift of independence and freedom for granted.  But when this is threatened -e .g. our time or our resources or our health are taken from us, we start to realize the blessings we truly have.

Something I’ve strived for more and more is protecting my gift of time.  When I have control and autonomy over my schedule, I feel so much more free.  Of course, you cannot control everything in life.  There are things I wish I had more control over, always.  But at least having some semblance of control of more of my day brings me more joy and happiness.  One way I have done that in the last year is changing jobs.

I am truly grateful for my new opportunity to practice telemedicine.  This gives me an interesting new way to develop care to patients.  And as an incredible bonus, I am able to work from home.  This has freed up a bunch of my energy and time, and mental bandwidth, as it has eliminated a need for a commute.

My new job has also given me more autonomy in setting my schedule so I can juggle my other responsibilities as wife and mom, and so I can take care of me via my hobbies and self care.  In turn, I think this has given me a greater sense of that elusive concept pf “Work Life Balance.”  I think it is impossible to do multiple things all perfectly, but I think you learn to maximize as much as you can, to get all of your buckets “good enough” so you are happy and functioning.

As I reflect on Independence Day this weekend, I will work on keeping gratitude at the top of my mind.  There are so many things we have to be thankful for in the United States.  Sure, there are things that could be better – life is never perfect.  But I feel we have come very far in the last couple of decades.  And in the last 30-40 years, technology has brought many gifts to our society and to our nation.  Would you have believed many of us would be carrying a smart phone around, with the power not only to call each other, but also to check the Internet, which contains such a huge wealth of knowledge it is difficult to fathom?

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So much to be grateful for this year, including freedom to spend more time with these two cuties.

Again, Happy 4th of July and happy Independence weekend.  I hope you too can find things to be grateful for.  As the next few days go by, I would hope you find some time to reflect on our country’s gift of independence, and the great things our nation has to offer.