Comfortably Uncomfortable

To get better at anything requires some degree of hard work.  With hard work there is often discomfort.  With distance running in particular, there is a threshold pace where true growth and adaptation occurs.  This is a pace that hurts, but is something you can maintain for a good chunk of time.  This is what can be called “comfortably uncomfortable.”

Getting into my groove.

When I do go on threshold or “workout” runs, which are maybe once or twice a week, I remind myself to get into that comfortably uncomfortable rhythm.  It isn’t the most pleasant pace, but I remind myself to avoid pushing myself too hard into higher intensity.  And I need to remind myself not too go too easy.  I sometimes dwell on the fact that the next day will be recovery, either full rest or a much lighter more leisurely pace, a time to enjoy my surroundings.  With hard work, there should be a counterbalance of rest.

With my life too, I have noticed I need to embrace things that are uncomfortable.  I am learning I cannot dwell too long in the “uncomfortably uncomfortable” range, as I will definitely tire out. Sprinting all out for a marathon is just not sustainable.  The same goes for burning the candles at both ends in a typical day or week.  Instead, it takes finesse finding that middle ground, a pace where I am still working hard and growing, but not overdoing it.  It is definitely not something I have mastered yet, and probably will always need to keep working at.  With practice, though, I am learning to recognize my limits and sense how I feel, so I can adapt my efforts accordingly.  I want to grow and do better, but it is important to do so with appropriate levels of stress and hard work.  And it is equally important to play, rest, and enjoy life.

Work hard, play hard. Embrace the fun in life!

 

 

When The Going Gets Tough…

When I am hitting a rough patch in life, be it at work or on my running training plan, this phrase runs through my head: “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.” For me, I think this means you persevere in the face of challenges. If something is tough, you can become tough to rise to the challenge and meet that tough thing head on. Sure, there are some insurmountable challenges out there. But if you face them with grit and determination, I think you can accomplish a lot more than you think.

A tough hill, for example, often breeds some discord in my mind. (There are plenty of hills in western Pennsylvania where I live, I can tell you that.) This hill is crazy. How am I supposed to get over that elevation? Ugh. This is too hard. When the negative self talk starts overtaking my thoughts, I take a deep breath, reset myself, and remind myself “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.” This often helps me reframe my mind and powers me up the hill.

I think this can be an analogy to life as well. There are things I sometimes don’t want to do at work. Again, I think a bit to my running practice, and approaching a nasty hill, and mimic my behavior. I recenter myself, take a deep breath (or two, or three), and quiet my inner critic with the old adage, “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.” I refocus my self talk then to be more motivational. I can do this. Just put one foot in front of the other. Keep moving. Concentrate on this one step. One two, one two. You’ve got this.

And the more I practice doing hard things, the easier it gets to take on the challenges. Sure, life is still hard. But by practicing steeling myself and doing the hard things anyway each and every day, I think I become a calmer, more patient human being. And I think I do become tougher the more I do hard things. The challenges in life are by no means a happy thing, and sometimes can crowd out the enjoyable things in life. But with these challenges, I see a way for me to become a better, stronger, tougher person. The going may get tough, that is a given. In spite of this, though, I will strive to meet the challenge head on, and keep going.